Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Emotional Insecurity

A person who is emotionally insecure lacks confidence in their OWN value, and one or more of their capabilities, lacks trust in themselves or others, or has fears that a present positive state is temporary, and will let them down and cause them loss or distress by "going wrong" in the future.

Overall, a person who is insecure always needs "reference points" to confirm his confidence, without which he is not clear about his own state of mind.

A few signs:
"Need to have a setting of authority to feel power and confidence"
"When opposed, feel the urgency of fighting back and straigthening things up. Can not take a losing situation"
"Rarely let go, good or bad"
"Need to have money to feel rich and always feel that there is not enough"
"Say things like "This woman married a man 20 year her senior for his money, just for his money" - a sign of pessimism of self-value and natural charm"
" Feel proud sleeping with someone younger or beautiful or rich or famous"

 

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